Although most of them are emotionally ready to date someone new, they should focus on dealing with their breakup emotions and reflecting on their behavior. I think dumpers shouldn’t date anyone right after the breakup. He would prefer not to feel like the bad guy even though he probably is for not considering your feelings by dating someone else right away. He just doesn’t want to hurt you and feel guiltier than he already does. So if your ex is a decent person, this is the reason why your ex is hiding his new relationship. It hurts him (his conscience) to know that he’s hurting someone who’s down on her knees, hoping to get another chance at the relationship. Maybe not the kind of pain you’d feel, but guilt is a form of pain too. Your ex basically kept this in mind and decided not to tell you about his relationship because he could cause you pain again, which would then indirectly cause him pain as well. He’d prefer not to cause you any more pain because the breakup alone was painful enough already. If the breakup was calm and peaceful and your ex is generally a caring person, your ex would much rather not hurt you for the second time. Guilty for moving on so quickly when you’re still dealing with the post-breakup blues. He’s afraid of telling you the truth because the truth could bring an unwanted response out of you and make him feel guilty. If your ex is hiding his new relationship on social media or in person and you don’t know why he’s doing that to you, you need to know that your ex is afraid.
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